Thursday, December 31, 2009

Love From An Early Marriage




During his childhood child everyone always trying to get a sense of security and peace of batin.demikian also in a marriage, there is need for security and peace in his life.
If they do not feel safe and protected within the family environment and the door will open wide to the threat of danger.

Problem of a husband or wife is the inability to make a settlement on the issues they face, because they are less mature in terms or emotional condition of each ..

How to keep love and be loved though. Going in and out of the whole circle of love which is very simple to many usaha.Untuk can preserve and feel warm in love marriage, is the nature of the task and the particular character which we have to rely on reality and truth.

A good initial plan was simply not our marriage because of lovel.point better if we tried as much as dare to think of love as the ultimate goal in marriage is to be sought and nurtured throughout life.

When we live the primary purpose of marriage from the beginning, then we will feel confident where necessary effort and hard for a living true.

Finally we realize that marriage is an integral part of our lives as human beings.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

SUCSESS IN DEALING



Departure from the fact that humans as social beings can not loose contact with men lainnya.Orang dependent on others in a form concerning his personal and individual needs, the human need to interact with others successfully
Julius chandra says that the basic social success is like, respect, and love.
Liked, respect and love others will greatly enable the attraction and the adhesive interactions. Let Your Mind
How not?
Does not everyone want to be liked, loved and liked by others?
Are not we the same way?
not we will be happy hanging out with the base?
It is the attitude of sympathy toward others will bring happiness is desirable, both for the sympathy and the sympathy. Anyone who could run these principles, it will get a lot of friends and friends pleasure. Is not that right?

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

HOW TO OVERCOME SHAME



Feelings of shame is one of the feelings experienced by men and young people. Moreover in the development of their personality. This feeling emerged as a less capable of feeling so real shame it is reasonable.

People can be embarrassed by, because less sure of his own abilities, always feel anxious or worried about the issue at hand, less confident, or not getting the respect and the chance it deserves.

How do I overcome shyness?
Shame not to be eliminated completely in our lives because without them it would be very embarrassing.

There are various ways to overcome shyness as below:

1. Eliminate Pain inferiority
By removing the inferiority complex we will automatically become a stronger person because we believe that we are supreme beings and equal .

2. Your self-correction
Self-correction like we reflect, we can see what we ourselves know that we aka the advantages and disadvantages of ourselves

3. Trying to divert attention
Turn our attention to other people, it will help eliminate the sense of shame
That's three ways that I write, if you have another way to overcome shyness to yourself? How do you think?

Monday, December 28, 2009

How a person can change the order of life



One might argue that to get on need to know the character of our people who will bring along. This also is true, indeed knowledge will be helpful in dealing with others.

Human beings both as individuals and as a whole has a desire to communicate or interact with others. Everyone wants to be friends, hang out and with others. In a person's desire to relate is what is called social desires. But the man in the mix and communicate with each other are never satisfied when there is no personal contact, not satisfied if there is no special attention.

It is precisely from here that developed towards the election and selection of friends or social life.
There is a saying that say the that "if you do not want pinched, do not pinch other people"
Validate that adage.

We know that someone will be happy or not happy for others depends on the attitude of other people.

No matter how well people always need good people as friends and close friends, even a life partner.

Just like me and you are now. I need friends and companions even in the online world.
 
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